::R.I.P. DJ AM::

“Every man dies--Not every man lives” - William Wallace

I understand that it's the job of the media to report all facets of the news, but I personally feel that this is not the time to exploit how he died, or why, but to revisit what he gave to the music industry as well as society through his work. He used his life experiences to create an open forum regarding obesity, physical abuse, and drug abuse. Adam "DJ AM" Goldstein used his life to inspire others, therefore leaving a trail of positive light behind to shine through those he touched.

::If I Were A Boy::

I am hoping and wishing that somehow my feet grow to great lengths so that I too can partake in the Joy that is named as the Kanye West for Louis Vuitton - Jasper’s - $1140. Or I can just purchase and sit them upon a shelf for daily meditation....that could work! O and for another visual pleasure...
Call him what you want...but I call him a straight G....yes I went Ol' School. Kanye is undoubtedly a lyrical genius, and by far one of the most fashionable men alive, and any man who carries around the Metallic Louis Vuitton is a stand-up guy in my book! So all in all, If I were a boy I would be Kanye...or I would just be a fly dude with the Louis Jasper Sneaks....

Disclaimer: In the real world this could also portay something a little sweeter if not carried with the upmost swag, so men, carry at your own risk!!

::LDL Style::For the Home::

In another life I swear I was an Interior Designer...or atleast wanted to be! Being that I have lived on just about every street in the East Walnut Hills section of Cincy, I've had tons of practice with decorating..and re-decorating my homes. Now that I is now We, my decorating has taken a turn for "How Do I Incorporate the Man" avenue!!! I am usually a very neutral colored palette, hence my past home styling:

But now that my Mr. Big has entered the picture, I decided to branch out to different pops of colors, and try to Man-It up a bit. So once we moved into our condo I introduced the color Red into my life, and opted for more sleek lines:

But yet I kept our kitchen and dining area still neutral and very home-feeling:Now here is where the fun begins....I am sssoooo not finished...and I want you to follow me in my...um...let's finish the livingroom adventure. The other side of our living room is a mini-bar...and it's quite blah at the moment:

I'm hoping for the end result to look a little something like:

LMBO!!! But I'm going to try people...don't hold your breathe...but atleast stay tuned!!!!!

::Mid-Day Funny::

I know you're confused with the title and all, but this is hilarious to me! Is Jay-Z Bigger than Hip-Hop??????? Come on XXL...are ya'll serious...or in the words of my sis.."IS YOU REEEAAALLL SERIOUS??? No ONE man is bigger than hip-hop...I repeat...No ONE man is bigger than hip-hop, and to state this anywhere on paper makes me my mind go to my main man Nas...
Hip-Hop would certainly have to be dead and buried if Jay is bigger than the movement. Now don't get me wrong...I am a certified Jay-Z fan...certified...but I'll be damn if he out runs a whole movement. I mean granted, he has distanced himself from the recent foolery of the so-called hip-hop scene, but what people don't realize is hip-hop is bigger than...hip-hop. Everything it entails is what makes it so diverse...it's evolved...like social media...hip-hop artists stay relevant just by Tweeting...not a hot album..not hot lyrics...but clever tweets keep you relevant...CRAZINESS, but moreso...the truth. Is Jay-Z truly the hottest rapper, or best business man, or even a mogul, or is it his persona that makes us think he is....or pics such as the one above(lol). But think about it..and you will hate me after this..but let's look at...drum roll..

T-Pain...


And yes I found the wackiest photo! But look at him...I don't care if he was sitting at the head of a conference table, I would still say...he's nuts...he couldn't be a business man, a mogul, let alone a decent rapper...and that's all off of his persona. This wacky guy just exudes coonery...but yet he was one of the highest paid artists last year, and his investment portfolio as well as business ventures are noted by Forbes Magazine.

Now pause...I am in no way comparing Jay-Z to T-Pain, I am merely challenging you to ask yourselves...If Jay-Z wasn't so laid back, wasn't so (fake) mystical about his life, and up and decided to dress like a ring-master...would you still call him the greatest????

Survey says...lyrically-YES..but we ain't talking lyrics in this post....(lol)..so my point you ask....my point is...these artists are just that...artists..he has created..Jay-Z...the same way T-Pain has created..T-Pain...and all in the name of Hip-Hop. So to personify this man as bigger than what made him is utterly ridiculous..and possibly the most hilarious thing I've heard in a long time, therefore making this cover LDL's Mid-Day Funny!

Disclaimer: This was a loose...and I do mean loose exploration of J's talents...for satirical purposes...I give credit where credit is due..and the man is a lyrical genius...but I had to go Brown Sugar on ya'll...don't nobody mess with my Hip-Hop!!!!!!!

::BE CLEAR::

HOTTEST CHICK IN THE GAME.PERIOD.

(UPCOMING VOGUE ITALIA)

::Lucy!!!! I'm Home::

Late Night Heaven, Pure Heaven...well for your tummy! Lucy Blue Pizza is a definate LDL Must-Have after a night of partying. Actually last night was so darn tasty I am now going to tackle this party in your mouth pizza parlor during daylight. Who's with me????

1128 Walnut Street/Cinti,OH 45202

http://www.lucybluepizza.com/

::Bedside Note::

Good Morning World!! Sweet slumber brings joyous thoughts...well atleast this time. Today's inspiration:(and my everyday inspiration):

Can you wake up this fresh faced??????

::LDL Fave::

I *heart* Ben Fink Shapiro...and what I *heart* more than him...his photography! We should have known great things would come from him...being a fellow Walnut Hills Grad and all(lol)...but his talents have surpassed more than anyone would have imagined. I was blessed to work with him a few years back...and I do mean blessed...but I'm sure he's too big for me now..(lol)..but nonetheless he is my first LDL Fave...check his website at http://www.benfinkshapiro.com/

Hats off to you Ben!!!!

(photo credits obviously:Ben Fink Shapiro)

::R.I.P. Sen. Ted Kennedy::

If you don't realize what this country lost today....http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32491712/?ns=politics-capitol_hill.....knowledge is power! Rest In Peace Senator Ted Kennedy......

::O' Helena::

Bizness...I don't usually pub Bebe..but I have noticed their shoe collection becoming a bit feisty. I had to partake in the Mz.Helena platform over the weekend..and it was glorious...just plain glorious....ofcourse I opted for the silver/purple/and black combo!

What's Next?

Dating...Engaged...Married...Kids....BORING...someone please tell me this isn't my life track! I need more...I need...less! Is single the new taboo? I feel like when I was single it was like a race to become un-single...and for what? I mean, don't get me wrong...I'm happy, but why did I think I couldn't be happy single, I'll even go as far as to say, why would I think I couldn't be happy dating. Who has put these things in our heads to make us feel like single or unmarried isn't the norm, when in fact I can count happy married couples on one hand, but I would need all the hands in the world to count the happy unmarried ones.

Is it not cool to not be planning a wedding?

I live my life by planning or looking forward to atleast something...I always need some type of countdown..whether it be to a birthday, or a damn bbq...I'm counting down to something. Has that moved over into my relationships? Did I need a countdown to feel like I was moving forward? Why can't life just stand still? Do you really need to go to the so-called 'next-step'? Have we been socialized into thinking that these are truly the next steps? What if we have this all backwards...think about it...there was Adam...and then there was Eve...now I'm not going biblical on you...but he didn't plot them down as Adam & Eve Smith...you get me?!?!? I know I'm reaching...but just explore...

Can you be happy alone?

It doesn't have to be the creepy alone with no friends and no one of the opposite sex::or same...I won't judge! But do you have to take someone's last name to validate your progression? As I approach marriage, I have explored all these thoughts..and I do simply understand that when you love someone, and you know you want to spend the rest of your life with them..then you usually just get married...BUT...I feel like the older I get..the more I'd rather just let it be. No hoopla...no formalities...just love. No what's next, or what do we do now...just love.

25::Kinda Like A Big Deal?!?!

As 25 approaches...and passes by for some...it is only natural to stop, assess, and determine....determine whether or not you're where you wanted to be! I feel like in our younger days we had so many 'unrealistic' goals...unrealistic meaning, things that the average joe hasn't done until 30 and up. Think about it...how many of you were going to be done with your two kids, a husband/wife, and a white picket fence??? Dont be shy...

It seems like this would have been ok, in the fifties...or sixties...but life has too many twists and turns now. It's hard to stick to a daily schedule let alone a yearly one. It does make you wonder tho, if I'm not here now, then when will I be? My outlook is let life live itself....and enjoy the snippets that you CAN control...

Fortunately I am surrounded by friends and family who may not be where they thought they would have been, but are certainly batting a 100 when it comes to being successful in their own right. In my opinion...and moreso my mothers(lol)...some things you just DONT celebrate...

For instance...after 2 kids, with 2 separate fathers, the 3rd baby shower might not be such a big to-do on my to-do list!! Meaning...some times life gives you lemons..but that doesn't mean I have to be the one to order the round of lemon martinis to keep the party goin...hence why some people totally skip over certain birthdays..simply because when they take a step back and assess..their determination may be that...this too shall pass!!!

But then there are those who can jump for joy and count their blessings and really rejoice in not just making it to another birthday, but making it to this birthday with growth, wisdom, and sheer fabulousness...so whether it be your 25th, 30th, hell, any year...if you are truly making strides, and showing the rest of the world how it should be done...I say 2 extra drinks for you!!!!

With that all said::::::::::::::Happy Belated to Katelyn and Veronica::The Fabulous Duo certainly did 25 In Style!!!!

Also..a resounding Happy Belated 30th Birthday to my wonderful sister Christie!!!

And Happy Birthday to all of you!!!

::P.Y.T::

Are you in love?? Because I totally am!!! Chanel. Sessilee. Jourdan. Arlenis. Did someone say takeover?!?!?! Fierce is an understatement....All 4 ladies held their own and yet came together to exude nothing but fabulousness. I don't know about you, but this pic goes in my closet as inspiration....